Betty Brewer, 89 of St. John Resident (Formerly Riverdale, IL) passed away January 2, 2023, at Cedarhurst Senior Living in Dyer, IN. Betty was born on October 4, 1933, in Riverdale, IL, to John and Elizabeth Heil. It was here where Betty grew up with her two siblings, brother Henry Robert, aka Bob and sisterContinue Reading
Betty Brewer, 89 of St. John Resident (Formerly Riverdale, IL) passed away January 2, 2023, at Cedarhurst Senior Living in Dyer, IN.
Betty was born on October 4, 1933, in Riverdale, IL, to John and Elizabeth Heil. It was here where Betty grew up with her two siblings, brother Henry Robert, aka Bob and sister Virginia, aka Ginner. Betty attended Bowen grade school in Riverdale and Thornton high school in Harvey, IL. Betty was preceded in death by her parents and older brother Bob and is survived by her sister and best friend Ginner. Betty was also preceded in death by her husband of 37 years Raymond Brewer, together they had and raised five children: Linda (Warren) Kutlik, Larry (Diana) Brewer, Sue (Phil) Draper, Mike (Bonnie) Brewer & Tom (Chris) Brewer.
While Betty loved a lot of things in life including bowling and golfing with her husband and friends, nothing brought her more joy than her 7 grandchildren (Julie, Jim, Traci, Lisa, Amanda, Kyle & Kara) and 13 great grandchildren (Jeff, Rebecca, Angelica, Fiona, Ashley, Zoie, Kaylee, Michael, Gavin, Hazel, Madilyn, Delilah and Reagan).
Betty also took pride in being the “go to” person for any historical or trivia questions. From old movies, to cars, stores, streets or pretty much anything in general, she was the person you called to confirm your answer. She watched Jeopardy every day and would talk to her sister about the questions, contestants, and answers. She was also your local movie or tv show critic!
Betty will be missed by all those who called her, Mom (and there were more than just her kids that called her mom), Grandma, G-Ma, GG, or Friend. But all who knew her were blessed and can take great comfort in knowing Betty loved them and cherished the time spent with each one.
A memorial to celebrate Betty’s life will be held on Wednesday, January 11th at 7pm at Kish Funeral Home, 10000 Calumet Avenue, Munster, IN. Friends can meet with the family from 4:00–7:00 pm. In lieu of flowers to honor the love Betty had for her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren, please make a donation in her name to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital (stjude.org).
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Holly Hudson
left a message on January 18, 2023:
Sincerest and most heartfelt condolences to my friend and co-worker Tom on the loss of his mother. Condolences to ALL of Betty's loved ones left behind. May she rest in her paradise.......
Joe & Sunday Bartlett
left a message on January 11, 2023:
Sorry for your loss to the Brewer family, our thoughts and prayers be with you.
Fairest of All was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Joe & Sunday Bartlett. Send Flowers
Joe Bartlett
left a message on January 11, 2023:
My Condolences to the Brewer family. I have never met Betty, but I work with her son Tom and I think the world of him! I have heard so many stories about what a sweet Mom and woman Betty was. Our family sends thoughts and prayers to the Brewer family. Always cherish the memories and thoughts with you and do the best you can do to remember what an incredible loss she will be. And carry on the day-to-day stories with you in your heart.
Jan Abbott
left a message on January 10, 2023:
I have known Mrs. B since her daughter Sue and I were friends in high school. Family was always everything to Mrs. B., and she always made me feel like I was family to her, too. We stayed in contact all these years, and Mrs. B enjoyed hearing about what I was up to and about my daughters and grandchildren. Even more, Mrs. B loved talking about her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren and letting everyone know how very proud of them she was and how much she loved each and every one of them.
We will all miss you Mom Brewer and take comfort in knowing that you are in Heaven watching over us and still smiling with your family.
Ameera
left a message on January 9, 2023:
My condolences to the family. Prayers for you all
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Betty Brewer . Plant a Tree
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Anonymous
left a message on January 5, 2023:
Sacred Garden Spray was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Denise Hollmer
left a message on January 5, 2023:
Don’t think of her as gone away
her journey’s just begun
life holds so many facets
this earth is only one.
Just think of her as resting
from the sorrows and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days or years.
Think how she must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of her as living
in the hearts of those she touched
for nothing loved is ever lost
and she was loved so much.
Sending my love and deepest condolences to my cousins and their families. Praying that the memories of your dear mother comfort you in the days ahead. The last line, "she was loved so much" says it all.
Christen Valente
left a message on January 5, 2023:
“Grandma Betty” was a true treasure and will surely be missed. Julie, her granddaughter, is my best friend, and the love they shared, and that Grandma Betty shared with her family was a beautiful sight to witness. I will cherish the memories, and will always see her smiling face when thought of. My heart is with you all during this insurmountable loss.
Christen Valente
left a message on January 5, 2023:
“Grandma Betty” was a true treasure and will surely be missed. Julie, her granddaughter, is my best friend, and the love they shared, and that Grandma Betty shared with her family was a beautiful sight to witness. I will cherish the memories, and will always see her smiling face when thought of. My heart is with you all during this insurmountable loss.
Hector Ortiz
left a message on January 4, 2023:
I know she really enjoyed our conversations, she always made my day after talking with her, she has and always will have a special place in my heart. I appreciate it tremendously having been a part of her life and family, there wasn’t anything I wouldn’t for her. I Thank all of you for allowing me to be a part of your family, I send my Love and continued thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
My Sincere condolences,
Hector Ortiz
Hector Ortiz
left a message on January 4, 2023:
I know she really enjoyed our conversations, she always made my day after talking with her, she has and always will have a special place in my heart. I appreciate it tremendously having been a part of her life and family, there wasn’t anything I wouldn’t for her. I Thank all of you for allowing me to be a part of your family, I send my Love and continued thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
My Sincere condolences,
Hector Ortiz
Gloria Elmore
left a message on January 4, 2023:
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mother..
Prayers for you and your family...
Ki Heil
left a message on January 4, 2023:
Love Ki and Sung Young (William)
Arrive in Style was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Ki Heil. Send Flowers
Wendy Tavenner
left a message on January 4, 2023:
Sending my heartfelt love and prayers to all my cousins and their families! Remembering Aunt Betty with quite an abundance of character as evidenced by her legacy, her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Those we love can never be more than a thought away; for as long as there’s a memory they live on in our hearts. There are so many heartfelt memories of visiting Aunt Betty as a youth.
Curt and Terri Tostie
left a message on January 3, 2023:
Our thoughts and prayers are with Sue and family from Curt and Terri Tostie
Sweet Sincerity was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Curt and Terri Tostie. Send Flowers
Judy vanmeter
left a message on January 3, 2023:
In deepest sympathy to your family. Love, Judy
Fiery Lily and Rose was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Judy vanmeter. Send Flowers
Sue Draper
left a message on January 3, 2023:
Mothers never really die, they just keep the house up in the sky. They polish the sun by day & light the stars that shine at night, and keep the moonbeams silvery bright-and in the heavenly home above, they wait to welcome those they love. Mom, I know you are with me & I will always love & miss you with all my heart. Until then, rest in peace. Love, Sue (& Phil)
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Holly Hudson
left a message on January 18, 2023:
Sincerest and most heartfelt condolences to my friend and co-worker Tom on the loss of his mother. Condolences to ALL of Betty's loved ones left behind. May she rest in her paradise.......
Joe & Sunday Bartlett
left a message on January 11, 2023:
Sorry for your loss to the Brewer family, our thoughts and prayers be with you.
Fairest of All was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Joe & Sunday Bartlett. Send Flowers
Joe Bartlett
left a message on January 11, 2023:
My Condolences to the Brewer family. I have never met Betty, but I work with her son Tom and I think the world of him! I have heard so many stories about what a sweet Mom and woman Betty was. Our family sends thoughts and prayers to the Brewer family. Always cherish the memories and thoughts with you and do the best you can do to remember what an incredible loss she will be. And carry on the day-to-day stories with you in your heart.
Jan Abbott
left a message on January 10, 2023:
I have known Mrs. B since her daughter Sue and I were friends in high school. Family was always everything to Mrs. B., and she always made me feel like I was family to her, too. We stayed in contact all these years, and Mrs. B enjoyed hearing about what I was up to and about my daughters and grandchildren. Even more, Mrs. B loved talking about her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren and letting everyone know how very proud of them she was and how much she loved each and every one of them.
We will all miss you Mom Brewer and take comfort in knowing that you are in Heaven watching over us and still smiling with your family.
Ameera
left a message on January 9, 2023:
My condolences to the family. Prayers for you all
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Betty Brewer . Plant a Tree
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Anonymous
left a message on January 5, 2023:
Sacred Garden Spray was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Anonymous. Send Flowers
Denise Hollmer
left a message on January 5, 2023:
Don’t think of her as gone away
her journey’s just begun
life holds so many facets
this earth is only one.
Just think of her as resting
from the sorrows and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort
where there are no days or years.
Think how she must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of her as living
in the hearts of those she touched
for nothing loved is ever lost
and she was loved so much.
Sending my love and deepest condolences to my cousins and their families. Praying that the memories of your dear mother comfort you in the days ahead. The last line, "she was loved so much" says it all.
Christen Valente
left a message on January 5, 2023:
“Grandma Betty” was a true treasure and will surely be missed. Julie, her granddaughter, is my best friend, and the love they shared, and that Grandma Betty shared with her family was a beautiful sight to witness. I will cherish the memories, and will always see her smiling face when thought of. My heart is with you all during this insurmountable loss.
Christen Valente
left a message on January 5, 2023:
“Grandma Betty” was a true treasure and will surely be missed. Julie, her granddaughter, is my best friend, and the love they shared, and that Grandma Betty shared with her family was a beautiful sight to witness. I will cherish the memories, and will always see her smiling face when thought of. My heart is with you all during this insurmountable loss.
Hector Ortiz
left a message on January 4, 2023:
I know she really enjoyed our conversations, she always made my day after talking with her, she has and always will have a special place in my heart. I appreciate it tremendously having been a part of her life and family, there wasn’t anything I wouldn’t for her. I Thank all of you for allowing me to be a part of your family, I send my Love and continued thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
My Sincere condolences,
Hector Ortiz
Hector Ortiz
left a message on January 4, 2023:
I know she really enjoyed our conversations, she always made my day after talking with her, she has and always will have a special place in my heart. I appreciate it tremendously having been a part of her life and family, there wasn’t anything I wouldn’t for her. I Thank all of you for allowing me to be a part of your family, I send my Love and continued thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
My Sincere condolences,
Hector Ortiz
Gloria Elmore
left a message on January 4, 2023:
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mother..
Prayers for you and your family...
Ki Heil
left a message on January 4, 2023:
Love Ki and Sung Young (William)
Arrive in Style was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Ki Heil. Send Flowers
Wendy Tavenner
left a message on January 4, 2023:
Sending my heartfelt love and prayers to all my cousins and their families! Remembering Aunt Betty with quite an abundance of character as evidenced by her legacy, her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Those we love can never be more than a thought away; for as long as there’s a memory they live on in our hearts. There are so many heartfelt memories of visiting Aunt Betty as a youth.
Curt and Terri Tostie
left a message on January 3, 2023:
Our thoughts and prayers are with Sue and family from Curt and Terri Tostie
Sweet Sincerity was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Curt and Terri Tostie. Send Flowers
Judy vanmeter
left a message on January 3, 2023:
In deepest sympathy to your family. Love, Judy
Fiery Lily and Rose was purchased for the family of Betty Brewer by Judy vanmeter. Send Flowers
Sue Draper
left a message on January 3, 2023:
Mothers never really die, they just keep the house up in the sky. They polish the sun by day & light the stars that shine at night, and keep the moonbeams silvery bright-and in the heavenly home above, they wait to welcome those they love. Mom, I know you are with me & I will always love & miss you with all my heart. Until then, rest in peace. Love, Sue (& Phil)
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