Mary J. Hayden, 81 of Dyer, IN formerly of Dolton, IL passed away on Friday, April 19, 2013. Beloved wife for 61 years of William Hayden; loving mother of Kathleen (David) Kapala, Mary (Charlie) Shanks, Eileen (Robert) Sturm and Bill Hayden; cherished grandmother of Thomas Kapala, Jean (Jason) Brown, Mary Kapala and Bill Beneventi; proud great grandmother of Nora and Sarah Brown, Nolan Thompson, Aidan Kapala; preceded in death by her brother, Thomas McCarthy and sister, Barbara Ferguson. \”Mary was a talented homemaker who always put her family first. She had many passions in life including a life-long love of photography and videography.\” Visitation will be on Tuesday April 23, 2013 from 3:00-8:00 PM at Kish Funeral Home, 10000 Calumet Ave. Munster, IN. Funeral service will be on Wednesday, April 24, 2013 at 9:30 AM at the funeral home with a 10:00 AM Mass of Christian Burial at St. Maria Goretti Church, Dyer, IN. Private interment will be at Assumption Cemetery, Glenwood, IL.